
Condolence Book
Casey House has a tradition of honouring lost friends by lighting the candle that sits in our front window. It burned for June for four days. And like the memories of the others this candle has honoured, the memories we have of June will never be extinguished.
To share your memories of June Callwood in this online Condolence Book, please send us an email at
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Our son passed away at Casey House in 1991. We so appreciated the love & compassion that was given to him & the support we were given at this very difficult time in our lives. Our heartfelt thanks to June Callwood for making it possible. She was a great lady whom I admired very much & she will be dearly missed.
Sincerely,
Stella & Del Barclay
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June Callwood is and always will be my hero. She lived her life in the most honest and quiet way with her eyes wide open to the inequalities of birth and condition. I served on the Metro Toronto YMCA Board back in the 1960's and Ms. Callwood was a force then, and in 2006 my son had the privilege of filming her for the "In the Mind Of" series for the digital biography channel. I was in awe of her in 1960, and 46 years later my son, who previously had only passing knowledge of her, was blown away by her humour, even in the face of her own personal tragedies, but mostly by her incredible humanity - it shone from her face and was evident in every word she spoke. She was his favourite interview. I envy my son, because I didn't have the honour of meeting Ms. Callwood personally. But I know when I heard of her death I felt I had lost a personal friend and the greatest of influences in my life. We have been fantastically gifted by her presence in our lives, and we are all diminished by her passing. She left us an amazing legacy of service and her spirit will enrich us for a very long time. My condolences to her family and to all whose lives she touched.
Wendy Beardall
Fredericton, NB
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Tonight, I watched and listened to a beautiful lady who was being interviewed (it was a repeat). Her words were not just from the mind but also from the heart. The words brought tears to my soul for the truth that she passed on to my ears. In some ways this lady's words can be a Credo for those who have the honor to both read and listened.
June may have passed on, but she will live on within the fond memories of those whom she has touched.
R. J. Wood (63 years young)
Edmonton, AB
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In 1976 I was in a history class at Burnhamthorpe Collegiate Institute with Casey Frayne. He was a year or so younger than me and had a sweet quirky quality that I found rather appealing. One thing I remember is every time he opened his mouth amazing things came out. I knew he was a gifted human being, partially due to his incredible mother who I knew really nothing about at the time. I was devastated in 1982 when I learned about his untimely death. As the years went by I learned about his amazing mother June Callwood. I never met her. But now, I look back, and I appreciate those moments in 1976 when I'd watch young sweet Casey's face, in that boring history class and I know my instincts were bang on thinking: "wow, this guy's from good stock!"
Mandy McKeen Temple, Nanaimo BC
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June was a warrior, a friend, confidante and amazing woman! Although we knew her death was imminent it was still a shock to hear on the news that June Callwood had left this earth for a better place. Knowing June, she's probably up in the Spirit World organizing something! Rest June. You have earned the right to a peaceful sleep now.Amber O'Hara
Casey House Client
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I never met June Callwood but I feel as if I have known her all of my life. In every instance, her calm, compassionate, logical response made me smile and think "that's it, that's completely it!". She is one of Canada's national treasures and I'll miss her.
Debbie Simonson
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"Whoever saves one life, it is as if he saved the entire world."
In 2005, I asked June for an interview for the biography I was writing about her. When she found out the book would be for young people, she quickly agreed. June and I had three lengthy conversations, during which she demonstrated her intelligence, strength, sense of humour, and compassion.
Who will repair the world now that June is gone?
My heartfelt condolences to family and friends who mourn June. May her memory be for a blessing.
Anne Dublin, author, "June Callwood: A Life of Action," Toronto
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Dear Friends at Casey House
I didn't know June personally, but have donated to any cause that she endorsed, knowing it would be a worthy one. My connection to Casey House's ministry is through my cousin, who's stepson spent his last days at Casey House. A spirit such as June's cannot die, whether she believed in an afterlife or not! That kind of energy goes on, through the people she inspired and in many other ways. The world is a much better place for having had her in it for 83 years. I just hope when my time comes to move on that my life here will have made even a small contribution towards making the world a better place for having me in it. I'm a Quaker and will be holding her family "in the Light" as they struggle to go on without her.
Jean Dean, Kingston, ON
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A true hero and champion. Bravo on a life well done Mrs. Callwood. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Love
Matthew, Alana and Jack
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I have just watched George Stroumboulopoulos' interview with June and a recurrent theme was her love of babies and their tenacious hold on life.
While I didn't entirely realize who she was at the time, I will never forget June's reaction to my son and our little family at a local restaurant in Bloor West Village. My several week old son, my husband and I were enjoying our first dinner out as a family. Her face visibly lit up when she saw our son in his 'bucket' or car seat. Having been recently released from Sick Kids only a few weeks earlier because of our son's potentially life-threatening brain hemorrhage, I wasn't feeling entirely confident about my parenting skills. There was no way she could have known his history. June was so loving toward my son and made us feel so good about bringing him out for dinner. She communicated so much love with so few words. Her encouragement really helped me as a parent even though our encounter was so brief. I hope I have the courage to nurture others - complete strangers - as she nurtured me as a mother.
Jill McKinlay-Morris
Toronto, Ontario
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I felt fortunate enough to be witnessing a clipping of an interview of such a Sweet, Respected and Beloved Soul; June while the watching CBC TV news. I felt so overwhelmed by the glimpses of her unbelievable contribution to our society and ultimately to humanity and mankind. I feel she was an incredible soul who has done so much for all of us and we all would be indebted to her blessing for ever. I feel we all must learn a simple thing only and that is to help others as much as we can irrespective of how little we can do but just to be able to give out and not to harm any one in this universe. Lets see how much I can try myself to be a good human. She did not believe in after life things because she was the ultimate type of soul but she has done that kind of thing that would always be remembered after her life. Lets pray for her immortal blessing for all of us here on this earth.
Kishore Pant, Vancouver BC
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Whenever I feel weary of working for various social causes, I think of June, and just keep on working. She has been an inspiration to so many of us - particularly to women - with her positive attitude and skill at getting others to support those who needed a hand. We are so fortunate to have had such an accessible woman as our mentor.
Mary Jo Leddy was right when she said that June's spirit will remain with us. Thank God for that! Ginger
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June Callwood was, and still is, a living example of the existentialist dictum that we define ourselves through our actions. We face multiple choices during our life and June always chose to help others.
Les Check
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We wish our condolences to family, friends and co-workers of June Callwood. She inspired us and many others with her interests in helping
those who really needed love caring and understanding. She will be always remembered in our minds and hearts.
Our sympathy.
Douglas and Carol Anne Tait
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"People have changed me, by being kind, and I'll pass it on..."
- June Callwood, 2007.
Your reminder of the power of kindness resonates in many hearts...what a beautiful, human legacy to leave us with... Your humour, conviction and grace mean so much.
You have changed me, in how you lived, and I'll do my best to pass it on...
Thank You /
Kevin Kirk
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On behalf of my late father and aging mother I gratefully thank June Callwood for her compassion to help people die with dignity in Casey House. My brother spent his last days in the care of Casey House; while his parents were permitted to share his last days of life there.
June Callwood has been an inspiration for mankind - small steps at a time. May her family find solace in the knowledge that June Callwood has touched and changed so many lives.
Sincerely,
Werner Gross
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I saw June Callwood speak at Roy Thomson Hall a couple of years ago. She impressed me the most of all the speakers in the series. I believe I am a humanitarian, and she is a mentor for me. When George Strombolopoulos asked her if she believed in God and her response was "I believe in kindness" I was awestruck. Yes, this is it. This embodies how we all should think and act. To treat each other with kindness is what it is all about. So simple and yet so profound......thank you June Callwood for your example of how to work towards a good happy family, how to be a good citizen, and how to be a positive contribution to this human race of which we are all a part. You have inspired me!
My mother who I loved dearly also died of cancer at the age of 82, just two years ago. I can understand the pain of this loss but also know that the family must feel so privileged to have been able to have had you as a mother, grandmother and wife. To one who has touched so many - thank you.
Most sincerely,
Kathryn Colantonio
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Our son was at the casey house and very well taken care of with alot of love and compassion thank you so much for your efforts! we are very fortunate to have a place like Casey house in this world.
Sincerely Terry and Mae Fischer
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June was a hero to me because she didn't just write about her activist projects or talk about the needs of the community she worked tirelessly to make good things happen that empowered those whom she supported. You will be dearly missed June Callwood and we deeply honour your life.
Deanna Lagroix
Oakville, ON
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In memory of Bruce Forsyth - and many thanks for all that you did for him
Margaret Gilmour
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I only met June and Trent once and yet with her death I felt a profound sense of grief. I was the on-duty chaplain in the Oshawa General Hospital the night that Casey was killed by a drunk driver. I had to tell them this terrible news and feel completely helpless to offer comfort at such a great loss. That moment in my life kept me aware of all the accomplishments of June's life and a supporter of the work of Casey House from its founding. My wife and I extend our sympathy to Trent and his family.
Rev. Bruce Coombe
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We just watched the wonderful interview with George Strombolopolous and June Callwood. She had such grace and beauty...kindness and caring for all. Her life will go on in all whom she touched...so many of us. Thank you June for your life!
Aldo & Laverna Marchese
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What an inspiriation.
An amazing woman...kind, loyal and very passionate!
I want to be like her when I grow up!
Andrea Dobbs
mother of three girls, wife of 14 years and only 40 years young!
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I was deeply saddened when I learned of the passing of June Callwood. I followed her many acts of kindness when I lived in Toronto and continued to do so when I left for Quebec and later for Alberta. She always struck me as a kind of secular Mother Theresa. I watched her final public interview on CBC tonight and her words touched me anew. May she rest in peace. My sincerest condolences to her lovely family.
Andy Knight
Professor, University of Alberta
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I only know Joan thru the various interviews and media bits I have been able to catch over the years. Whenever I heard her name mentioned or connected to an issue I made an effort to watch read or listen. I was never dissappointed . She inspired me. She gave me hope. We need more June Callwoods. Steve Letts, Victoria, B.C.
my deepest sympathies to June's family and friends. my thoughts are
with you.
Jessie Miller
Marystown, NL
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I would like to add my name to the list of people who recognize and revere June Callwood's name. Thank you for your efforts towards all of your projects and thank you for reminding me of the power and the need for human kindness. I plan to follow this path and thank you for your work and your reminder.
Deb Kitchener
Mount Albert, Ontario
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Hello
My heart goes out to June's family both personal and professional. She was quite the modern lady during the sixties and beyond. She truly was a woman of conviction. our country has lost a great hero of human rights. As she was painted with racism but never deferred to those who accused her because she knew the truth would set her free.
maybe god bless and keep her.
blanche armsworthy
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I never met June Callwood but an amazing woman like her will be missed even by people who never knew her personally. My sympathy goes to her family and friends, but her life will be forever celebrated as there are not nearly enough beautiful people on this planet like her. She is not only a huge inspiration to women but to all people who care about love, kindness and freedom of thought. Her light will shine on......
Thank you for your contribution and constant inspiration.
Christina Binetti Toronto
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I admired June Callwood for her honesty, tenacity and love of all things.
We have been blessed with her books, her passion, her loyalty to all those lives that were touched by her presence.
Thanks June, job well done! Thank-you for being you.
G Caron
Fox Creek AB
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June's loving spirit imbued her persona and life; she shone bright and beautiful. Godspeed, June.
Colleen Cruickshank
Vancouver, BC
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What a great inspiration for women aspiring to leadership roles.
Pat
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I was lucky enough to know June for the past 10 years and I cherish that friendship. I send my sympathy and condolences to her family and to her many, many friends.
Helen Lanteigne
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june was a wonderful role model for her generation of women.Showed us the meaning of courage to speak up and offering through her writing a view of her trail blazer personality We are very thankful for her insight and life.
ann j phinn
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Dear Family & Friends of June Callwood,
Although I have never met June Callwood, I was very touched by her
spirit and her activism and her warm smile. Canada has lost a tremendous
force and we will be diminished by her death.
Please accept my humble condolences. She was a great woman, a loving
spirit,a passionate writer, and a concerned humanitarian!
Deirdre Dwyer
Musquodoboit Harbour, NS
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This note is simply to extend my deepest heartfelt condolences to June's husband and family.
What a remarkable human being she was. She will forever remain in our minds and hearts.
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Carry on June, you are a beautiful soul and there is lots more for you to do...always and always and evermore and everywhere ever and whoever is so fortunate to be on your next path...... Our thanks. The Harden And Rush families xxx, Toronto ON
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I watched "The Hour" on CBC, Saturday, April 21 at 6 am, with George interviewing June. I was glued to the tv, watching this beautiful lady, who spoke of human kindness and faith. To hear her story, her accomplishments and beliefs was a blessing that morning. Thank you June Callwood, you are an inspiration. My heartfelt condolences go out to your family.
Lisa French
Red Deer, AB
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Torontonians and in fact all Canadians lost an outstanding citizen, a role model and a tireless warrior for social justice.
The public and media outpour of sympathy on her passing is indeed a fitting and wonderful tribute to her, for her lifetime commitment and efforts to heal the hurt of social injustices and stigmatization.
She left behind many orphans, but her legacy will only strengthen the spirit of Canada.
Our deepest sympathies and condolences to Trent Frayne and family.
Haig & Virginia Misakyan
North York, Ontario
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I'm sitting here watching June's final interview with George Stromboulopoulos again on the internet. Once again I find my eyes welling-up with tears. She was an inspiration to many by virtue of her kindness, her strength and her humanity. June motivated and encouraged us to make our world a better place. We all are feeling the loss of such a wonderful woman, a wonderful Canadian. My heart felt condolences to all her family and loved ones and the staff of Casey House
Andrew Brown
Ottawa, ON
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I never had the opportunity to meet June, however, I felt as though I was there in her home, while she gave her final interview to George Strombolopolous. You could tell she was the 'what you see is what you get' type of person. Sincere. Kind. Loving. Humorous.Committed. My deepest sympathies to her husband, and family. She will be missed, but not forgotten. Doneta Lewis, Calgary
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I want to say I wish I would have been able to meet this wonderful woman...just finished watching two interviews...on CBC and was touched and moved...my sincere thoughts are with her family and friends...Christine Smith, Archerwill, Saskatchewan
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I did not know June Callwood but saw an interview with her on television and was touched by her love, strength and her words. A thank you that such a beautiful person lived among us. Her words and deeds will never be forgotten.
Thank you.
Mijanou Sutcliffe
West Vancouver, BC
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Condolences to June's family and personal friends. Her life touched and inspired many others and that will have a continuing impact on many more, even on babies yet to be born, in the years yet to come, here and who knows where else in this world. We salute the loving work of a great
Canadian and a great human being.
John and Peggy Mika, Victoria, BC
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I just seen the interview June had with George Strompoloplis of “the hour” as CBC’s “The National” ran the interview tonight learning of her death. I do not know June though I will say I was absolutely amazed with everything said about this women, and all that she has done for the betterment of people as a whole. Casey House being one of many great things she has done to try to make the world a better place. I can say the world has truly lost one of its best people as we all should strive to be more like June, and help out one another. I personally completely agree with her comment that the world would be a way better place and have a lot less tragedy, wars, suicide etc if EVERY CHILD was about to have a fair shot in life and given a good healthy start.
I wrote on the site because her interview was very inspirational and touched my heart. I really do feel the world would be a better place if we all did even half as much as June did for her fellow person. I believe there is a special place in heaven for June Callwood. Hopefully she is smiling as she looks down to see how many people’s hearts she has managed to touch, even if it was via a television interview. You’re the panicle of what a classy person should be.
God Bless,
Jason Mallette
Kingston, Ontario
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Knew June since 1966 What a wonderful Treasure. Our 'Joan Of Arc' only completley sane.
Brave beyond belief, Warm and Friendly and smart too. One of a kind.
Will be sadly missed
wonderful Family too.
I have lost Touch over the years.
Special Condolences to Jesse and Barney who were great friends
Fondest Regards
Gary LeDrew
Louisbourg, Nova Scotia
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I was never fortunate enough to meet June but I feel I know her very well. What an awesome woman she was! Her kindness and goodness to the less fortunate--especially to the poor children will never be forgotten. She will stand as an iconic figure for generations of women to come. I'm really rather proud and honoured that I feel the same way about kindness and goodness to others and quite agree that it is this goodness that bestows immortality.
Her family can be proud of this valiant woman who remained true to herself and her values to the end. To her family I send my deep condolences and a huge thank you for the sacrifices they must have made to enable their mother to devote her life to those who needed her most.
Rest in peace dear lady.
S. A. Owens
Edmonton, AB
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I only learnt of June's charitable work and relentless efforts to end poverty and generally make the world a better place to live for those less fortunate through watching a CBC Newsworld programme. It brought a grown man to tears.
Again my deepest condolancies to June's family and friends to a marvelous lady, whom I hope the queen of England will recognise in her prays this week.
Although I never had the privilege to meet her just listening to her for 10 minutes she felt like a mother to me! Your spirit will continue. God bless you.
Theo Reed, Sudbury, Ontario
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Although I did not know Ms. Callwood personally, I know that she touched so many people with her kindness that she transformed into important causes. She exemplified the best that human beings can be and she was a role model for all of us to think and do with kindness and compassion. God bless you June. Yours was a "Life well Lived".
Wayne McLennan,
Montreal, QC
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Unfortunately, we did not have the honour of meeting June, personally. What a truly remarkable and intelligent woman Canada has lost. We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to June's husband, Trent, and family and friends at this very sad time. What an "energetic" and wonderful caring lady she was ! June will always be remembered with love and admiration.
Most sincerely,
Virginia & Lloyd & Laurel Aasen
West Vancouver, B.C.
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I was fortunate to have met June several times. I was a classmate of Casey Frayne when we both attended Burnhamthorpe Collegiate in the 1970’s. High school for me was not a good experience, but Casey made a difference in my life. He had started a school newspaper, “The Voice”, and invited me to write and become the chief photographer. I was amazed, a fellow student who believed in me and my abilities. I soon gained confidence and began writing and taking action photos of school activities and football games. He was a lot like his mother in that way and I was sad when she passed. I will always have her and Casey’s spirit of kindness with me forever and pass it on to others daily. Thank you June for your beautiful gifts, your spirit will live forever in my heart.
John Gerum
Vancouver, B.C.
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Today I weep with memory of how June Callwood influenced my life. Somewhere back either in the late 50's or early 60's my life could not have been more desperate. I was a young mother with 3 children living with a violent abusive alcoholic husband and felt hopeless. I had not finished grade 10 and could not imagine life could be any different for me.
Then one day, I heard this remarkable women on t.v. talk about hope and possibilities and something inside of me knew that she was talking directly to me... I followed June's life through the years where I ended my marriage; raised my children; met the man of my dreams; went back to school; got a degree in social work and spent the next 30 years in counseling people with addictions; battered women, people I could relate to. Today at the age of 70 I continue a full and productive life.
Of course I did it. However, I did it because June Callwood told me I could and for that I am forever grateful. Yes I weep for your loss and for the Joy of having known her in my life if only through the media.
With gratitude
Nel Shultz
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I JUST LEARNED ABOUT HER TODAY BY LISTENING TO HER NICE INTERVIEW.
I DID FELL IN LOVE WITH HER, KINDNESS AND NICE HEART...
I PRAY THAT GOD WILL KEEP HER KINDNESS WITH EVERY ONE WORKING IN HER HOME... AND HER SPIRIT GUIDING ALL OF HER GOOD PEOPLE.
I WOULD LIKE TO VOLUNTEER IF THERE IS A WAY TO DO IT OVER IN CALGARY...
JUST TO KEEP HER SPIRIT ALIVE...
I PRAY TO MY JESUS FOR A SPECIAL PLACE NEXT TO HIM ...
GOD BLESS HER FAMILY... AS BY JUST SEEING HER ONCE ON TV... I FELT LIKE SHE IS MY MUM TOO...
CHAFICA M. MOUGANIE
CALGARY - AB
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We have lost a great Canadian, a condensation of what it IS to be Canadian. RIP Ms Callwood.
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Thanks to June, for inspiring generations of women coming after her to understand the power of simple kindness.
Patricia Fahrni, Vancouver
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Over the years I have listen and admired. Tonight I sat through an interview listening of her love for family and children. Oh how I wish the world was made up of people like her. Hopefully she will watch over us always.Sandra
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Canada, and the world, has lost a magnificent lady. I was moved to tears by her final interview. Her courage and sense of humour in her final days, was awe inspiring. Be at peace, sweet lady!
James and Melissa Ford, Calgary Alberta
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June wrote the preface for the first printing of NOT A TOTAL WASTE; the true story of a mother, her son and AIDS (Mosaic Press: 1993,1996), encouraged my writing and continued work with HIV/AIDS. She also was personally supportive regarding the recent publication of THE TORONTO YOU ARE LEAVING (Untroubled Heart Inc., 2006) written by my son, Gordon Stewart Anderson, who died in 1991. Her strength was a shared one, her integrity an obvious one, her love a generous one. It
was an honour knowing and loving her, and that relationship will sustain me in many ways for the balance of my own life. Hopefully, it will help me to participate towards leaving this world a better place, as June changed each life which touched hers.
Marlene Anderson/B.M. Lloyd, author
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I would like just like to say that the news of June’s passing was a truly painful experience for me. I feel that Canada will be a sadder place without her, but that it is also a better place because of her. I have always admired her for her tireless work to improve the community, and I feel a debt of gratitude towards her because of the institutions that she helped found, like Casey House.
As a man who has been living with HIV for 22yrs now, and dealing with friends dieing for just as long, I can’t say enough about Casey House. Back in 1985 I cared for and watched my roommate die at home. There was not much care available then and it took quite a toll on me physically and mentally. By time my best friend Dan had become ill a few years later, Casey House had opened it doors. It was a totally different experience having him spend his last days in such a caring environment. I was really impressed to see June show up at the house quite regularly. She seemed to care so much for the institution and stayed involved with it.
One night, my friend’s mother had bumped into June in the Hall. June seeing that my friend’s mother was quite distressed, took her to the quiet room and they talked for hours. Dan’s mother was so taken by this gesture. She told me that June most likely was not aware of how much this meant to her. I always felt totally indebted to June for being there when my friend’s mother needed it. I have since had friends go to Casey House, and I have always felt at home being there. I cannot imagine what kind of world I would be living in, had June not been here.
My only hope now is that June’s drive and inspiration will be passed on in others.
David McCombs
Hamilton, ON
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Please accept my sincere condolences ,she was one of the great Canadian women of our time,our loss, Eileen Little, Nanaimo, B.C.
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My sadness and sorrow overwhelms me as I watch George and June converse tonight on The National. June Callwood is always supposed to be there - a mentor, a wonderful example, a pioneering woman who always leads the way. As long as our memories hold fast with June, June will be with us. A candle is burning in Saskatoon for you, June. From Laura
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Although I've never had the pleasure of meeting June Callwood in person, I have always admired her for her humanity and that never to be forgotten sweet smile. She lived what she believed. That good comes from thoughtful action, not just words. That everyday people have an obligation to help those in need. To listen and be there for each other. I now realize the world was a nicer place with June here.
This wonderful lady, this graceful, kind, and compassionate human being, lived a profound truth, expressed in her own words,"There is such a spirituality in doing what is right".
What need we of a heaven, when God and the angels make a home in your heart.
Thank you June.
My condolences to those closest to her heart, and my thanks and support to the many who carry on her work and the beautiful people in their care.
Dave Holmes, Kingston, Ontario
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*Humor*, *Courage*, *Love*, *Light*, *Fiesty*, *Warmth*, *Strength*, *Kindness*, *REALNESS*, *Passion*, *Gentleness*, *Truths* and Action in the face of adversity is the essential oneness I will hold closely when I remember June Callwood, a truly remarkable woman whom has touched the souls of young and old alike from all walks of life, cultures, circumstances and beliefs. Her presence in our world offered Leadership through HOPE. June promoted Itegrity through TRUTHS and embraced Courage and Benefit through ADVOCACY and ACTION.
On April 14, 2007 Canada lost the physical presence of a "Flower of Passion" but her guiding spirit will walk many lifetimes, of that I have little doubt.
As I sat on Saturday 14th having heard the sad news of the passing of June, I felt an overwhelming sense of grief, compounded by the loss a woman I had never met but felt strongly connected to in some ways and had admired and been inspired by from afar.
You see it was also the 2nd anniversary of the passing of my own dad, a man who like most of us had his own challenges to walk with through life but shone his own special kind of *magic* through the work he did with children in Ireland. My heartfelt and sincere hugs to the family/friends in the days and months to come and I have no doubt that just knowing how June touched so many will comfort and sustain you through these difficult times. The interview with George recently, sums up for me, the celebration of a life and the REALNESS of how June Callwood worked across all faucets by just BEING. The blessings are, she will be in all our hearts forever. There is truly a brighter star in our sky that will continue to shine brightly and her legacy of *KINDNESS* will never be forgotten. It's now our time to put her kindness to work and support building a safe, peaceful and caring world. You have my word, I will try in my way to do my piece.
Karen Butler-Lynch
Toronto
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Although I never had the pleasure of meeting June, or even seeing her speak at an event, throughout my life I have known about her - read about her in the newspapers or magazines, and in fact watched her television show for a time when I was home with my babies (over 30 years ago). She was a woman who one just knew - just KNEW - was utterly authentic. There was no false pretense about the lady, and perhaps it was that which attracted so many to her. Of course there was her clear sense of justice and her seemingly tireless energy to take up the cause of those less fortunate - the fact that she didn't just give lip service to these values: she DID something, gave of herself, worked to make things better and thoroughly enjoyed giving - although I don't suppose she ever looked at it that way. She was a role model to a generation of people - not just women, but both men and women: to identify what was needed and then put one foot in front of the other, reach out to whomever needed to be reached, engage the press if appropriate ... whatever it took to correct what was missing. And look what she accomplished. The world is indeed richer for her having lived. And although she didn't think there was anything beyond the here and now, I have no doubt that her presence in heaven is a cause for celebration there: she'll straighten out St. Peter himself if there's anything that needs tending to!
God bless you June. Your presence, your love and kindness, your indominable spirit has been a beacon for us all. That you walked this earth and touched so many people mattered more than you ever knew in your life. Perhaps now you have a glimpse of it.
Susan James, Listowel, ON.
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The world has lost a wonderful women and she will be miss by all who knew her.
Love juanita thomas labrador
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As an American I am just learning of the life of June Callwood primarily through my recent ability to hear the CBC's "National" news program on my computer and reviewing the Caseyhouse website.
Canadians have many reasons to be proud of their country, June Callwood is one. How improved the world would be if we could all just take on a little piece of what was her positive approach to life.
Oswald Sykes
Delmar, New York
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In watching media pieces with June Callwood throughout the years, one is always touched by her forthright honesty. If there is one lasting legacy that can be attributed to her it should be that every baby indeed should be treated gently and allowed to blossom in a safe and healthy environment. The concept is a turning point in history and should change the world as we know it today.
Lee Ann East
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My deepest condolences to the family and all who shared a life with June Callwood.
I just finished watching, for the second time, the interview with George Stroumboulopoulos and felt compelled to write a message. As an up and coming journalist, just finishing school, that life is hiding from you until you dig to uncover it. Callwood's words of kindness and humility are words that should not fall upon deaf ears. We should all embrace each other as humans and take care looking out for one and other.
Jeff Wallace
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Hello. Oddly enough, I never knew much about June Callwood until I saw some of her interview with George Strombolopoulis, and shortly thereafter, heard she had died. CBC rebroadcast the interview tonight, and I finally sat down and watched it through. I found myself touched to my core by her optimism and her call to be kind. My life has been difficult, an almost constant challenge, and yet here I found someone who I feel I can trust when she tells me kindness is the way through life. I find myself wanting to know more about her, and I see I have all your memories to draw on. I look forward to future memories of her, and how, even now, she may continue to affect my life, as she as affected so many others. She was and is inspiring. I look forward to getting to know you June.
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June is and will be an inspiration to all who love their fellow humans.
She showed a depth of understanding that helped very many to accept and respond to their situation in life.
Vic and Olive Dawson
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Deep condolenses to Junes family. What a superior human being. I get a tear in my eye every
time I think of Canadas loss. May she be trully blessed and rest in peace knowing she did more than her share.
Sonia Simes
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What a wonderful person we had with us for far too short a time. This world would be a far far better place if we were lucky enough to have more
June Callwoods.
She has always been at the top of my hero list
I just know that she will rest in peace and enjoy her next challenge
Robin Bromley
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I have watched the interview and I have also watched The Hour interviews online, just to hear and see her again and again and learn! I laugh and cry and marvel. June was and is an angel. Words are just not enough.
Thank you for sharing her. Grieve, dear husband. Know that you are blessed.
Tyna Ashley-Miller
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I have been aware for many years of June's efforts to make the world a better place. This week the CBC has reminded me once again of her tremendous contribution to much of Canadian society. I realize that her theology was goodness. I wish that her type of theology could be communicated to all religions particularly Christianity. May her work continue.
Ernest Taylor
St. John's, NL
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Although we did not know June Callwood personally, we have admired her remarkable achievements in so many facets of life. She has been an inspiration to all of us and been the richer for it.
May she rest in peace, and also wish to extend our deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Sincerely
The Doucette Family
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Hello to all the family of June Callwood, I wanted to add my condolences to the many I know you all will have received. I only recently grew to know about June through CBC radio & TV interviews, especially with Shelagh Rogers, & I am deeply saddened that June’s voice is now silent, whenever I listened to her speak I became entranced & all else shrank into the background as I hung onto her every word. I will remember her passion for babies & family, like June we have remained in the house we raised our sons in & expect to remain here for many years to come.
I also intend to try to follow June’s philosophy & treat others with kindness, not just my family, friends & myself, but also the people I meet throughout my journey in this life. I hope & pray all your cherished memories will sustain all the family in their time of grief.
Sincerely Marilyn Adamson, Parksville, B.C.
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Although I have always lived way out on the west coast the spirit of June Callwood has been a beacon. Just knowing that she always spoke for justice made my heart hopeful. The lives she touched in one positive way or another can never be counted.
I salute her achievements, her life and her legacy.
in admiration,
Sue Thorp
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To the family,Casey House and to all she influnced and inspired.
Even though I never met June Callwood,she has been part of the positive influence in my life.I've been involved in safe and affordable housing in Vancouver for 20 years,with Red Door Housing,McLaren Housing[providing safe and afforable housing for people living with HIV/AIDS]and Mole Hill Community Housing [the restoration of 26 Heritage homes to provide 168 units of safe and affordable housing]. I don't mean to list my accomplishments but to show how her inspiration inspired me to do something about housing.My knowledge of June goes back over 30 years,and was an inspiration in helping to provide the basics of life,that is a safe and secure living environment.
June Callwood inspired my belief,in her own words,"I believe in kindness".
While individually we may not change the world,together we can chip away at the wall of unkindness and create a future of kindness for our children.
Peace, Don L. Allison.
Vancouver,B.C
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You were an amazing woman. You have left this world a far richer one by your unending warmth, strength & compassion.
P Tabbernor Victoria BC
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the kindest soul
I never met her but felt like I knew her. Her philosophy of life-especially about babies-if we look after them right from the start-there would be no wars,no strife,no madness. She had so much love in her heart. When she was interviewed by George Strombolopolous and she said""when you take a babys hand and it folds its tiny fingers around yours,the love in that statement is so enormous. If all the Mothers of the world were like her, we would have it made.
Marg Macdonald
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Hello…
I came to Canada almost fifty years ago from England, and have always thought that this lady had the right focus on life! Intelligence, grace a wonderful sense of humor, and above all compassion and kindness. Her outward beauty was enhanced by her beautiful inner spirit. I will miss her…
Ken Bishop
North Vancouver
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My wife, Esther, and I never met June Callwood but we have known about many of her wonderful achievements for decades. She has left a marvellous legacy and will be sorely missed.
Abraham Tarasofsky
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Dear Members of the Casey House,
Though dear June has left us in person, her soul will march with us, until the day Our Lord returns.
To you and Mrs. Callwood's family, my heartfelt sympathy.
Alice Lam
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I did not know June personally, but I do know that her enthusiasm, her hope, and her love were quite evident in all her worthy endeavours.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, " What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
June had a lot of love within her, and what made her very special is that she shared that love.
Sonia Lovell
Brantford, ON
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I did not ever have the pleasure of meeting June Callwood but have been inspired by her my whole adult life. She was an inspiration to all women, indeed all people, to care and to do.
I am thankful for her life and her great contribution to Canada and to the world.
I thank God for the life of caring and service that June Callwood lived.
Jean Cassidy.
London Ontario
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I didn't know Mrs June Callwood but in the 5 minutes that I seen the interview this morning she was capable of moving me in a way that I was not aware.
All my toughts are with You that have been touched by her especialy her family
Francine Guay Allard
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I just now listened to the last interview with June Callwood. I was so impressed with her grace, her accomplishments, her wit and her obvious intelligence. Her life is an inspiration to each of us to reach out and make the world a better place. I enjoyed her good sensible approach to living. I often listen to interviews with important / famous Canadians and unfortunately once the interviews are completed, I remember very little about them. This interview I will remember! Lots of food for thought. My condolence to her family.
Sincerely,
Sandra Hargrove
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In 1976 I married a Canadian and moved to Toronto from a small city in Ohio. Other than teaching a Social Studies unit on Canada I knew little about our northern neighbor. Living in Toronto I was immersed in all things Canadian. Thank God June Callwood was one of them. I immediately connected with her writings and her philosophy. June was a gifted writer, speaker and storyteller. In the past week it has been good for me to listen to her again. She always renewed my spirit. I am so blessed to have been influenced by her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family as they remember her with gratitude and love.
Judy Ouellette, Kingsville, ON
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I did not know June until I saw her for the first time being interviewed by Goerge Stombonopoulous. I have watched that interverwiew over and over. What an inspirering woman. I just feel in love with the persone she is. Thank you for making a difference in my life.
Nadia Berube Frenette
N.B., Canada
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THANKS FOR YOUR EXAMPLE! Rosi Jory
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Ms. Callwood was a beautiful, talented and caring person. She held what so many people are lacking today, including integrity and kindness.
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There are so very few of us who can truly be called ‘great’ - many may claim it but so few truly are – June was one of those! In all the things that she did she always thought of others first – the welfare of others being her primary goal. How wonderful a woman and how proud we should be of someone as kind and caring as she!
June leaves a tremendous legacy for other Canadians to learn from – I pray we will!
My condolences to all who have known her - and to those who have not!
Anne Lynch
Sidney BC
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To Whom it May Concern,
We have never personally had the pleasure of meeting Mrs. Callwood, however, we did have the pleasure of observing and feeling her passion for life and her undeniable kindness.
As two undergraduate students with great hopes and ambitions we look to June as a great mentor with uncomplicated visions . She is and always will be, an anomaly, contining to inspire all who can share her love of life.
Natalie Turner and Jason Taylor
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I have had the pleasure and the honour of working with the Casey House Art With Heart Auction for the last three years. Always in my mind is the commitment June had to providing resources to those who can utilize them to help as many others as possible.
As a young professional who can't spare much in terms of monetary donations to the causes that so desperately need them, I have been provided the opportunity to lend my time and my skills to benefit the Casey House Foundation. The event that the Art With Heart Auction has become is built off of June's principles of generosity and a respect for all of those involved. While the main goal and ultimate success of this event is to provide the Casey House Foundation with resources, it's impact on the art world of this country has been immense, providing a discourse and recognition of the importance of sharing art and life with others.
June's example for me was to do whatever was possible within my daily life to help others. She has been an inspiration to me, and taught me the ability to donate in the larger sense of the word.
I will miss June and all she has done to teach us the values so important to be a healthy and proactive citizen. The education June has left me will be a legacy I hope to pass on to my young cousins and future children.
Thank you June
Wil Kucey Curatorial Committee, Art With Heart, Toronto
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To June’s family,
I am thinking of you as you are missing June. She is an example of how to live life, in a spirit of love, truth, and giving of herself. Over the years I have loved reading her writing and also articles about her---a genuinely fine woman!
A quote from Tagore:
“Death is not extinguishing the light;
It is putting out the lamp
Because the dawn has come.”
Sincerely,
Phyllis Nykiforuk
Saskatoon
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No one needs to comment about June.
Her life and writings speak more for her than any words of praise could.
Well lived, and goodbye.
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You have touched my life .... our country honours you, the needy thank you, we alI will miss you.
Peter
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Like many Canadians, I never met June Callwood although I briefly worked with her daughter, Jill, while living in Parry Sound. However, like many other Canadians, what I did experience were the warm, comforting ripples of kindness that flowed out from her actions and that served to ease my family’s journey through AIDS. By the end of my younger brother’s illness in 1989, we all sought refuge at Casey House as he ended his life’s journey. He, and all of us in my large family, felt safe there, knowing that he was being cared for and loved with dignity. We send our condolences to her family and close friends as they mourn her loss.
Brenda Bettridge
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Truly remarkable life. If only Governments and peoples can follow her advice!!
Cheers,
Murali Krishna
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If ever there was a great Canadian treasure, it has to be June Callwood.
Back in the 1970s I once wrote to her about early learning and experiences
of young children, and she replied, having taken time to listen and
respond to me. I think there were always few strangers in June's personal
and "media" range: everyone became a lifelong fan and friend. A life
beautifully lived, and now perhaps with the angels, her image and
voice and acts were and are almost archetypal, creating a lasting pattern
in the world, and particularly in Canada. For her loved ones, so sorry for
your loss, although we never truly lose those we love.
Peggy Pulver
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We have lost a great lady. Her smile and her great deeds. While I have never met her, it was as though I had. She was a special person that comes along so rarely and set a wonderful example of what can be done in this world. Condolences. Patricia
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Sorry to see this great woman and Canadian leaving us but what an inspiration she was to us all, Saw her last on a flight from Sudbury to Toronto 10 years ago. I wanted to talk with her but respected her privacy so I didn't, wish I had!
God Bless You,
Brian Mathers, Brantford
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My condolences to June’s dear husband and family. I had never seen June personally until one day a few years ago as I was walking through the passage under the Manulife Centre I spied her coming towards me. As I approached her it seemed absolutely by instinct that I opened my arms and as she walked to toward me she did the same. She gave me, this perfect stranger, the most wonderful, warm hug and smiled that gorgeous smile that shone on us all. As I write this I am in tears, and I can still feel the thrill of those few moments she held me with such human love. May her family know how much she was admired and loved.
Joan Pateman, Toronto, ON.
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I had the privilege of meeting June Callwood once, many years ago. I was in awe of her strength of character and conviction. When I heard she had lost her battle with cancer, I cried. She has embodied what it means to be a good citizen, a good Canadian. The world is a better place thanks to her caring and contributions. She is sorely missed. My heart goes out to her loved ones.
Sincerely,
Lela Lilko
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Nous venons de perdre une femme de liberte et une soeur.
Notre coeur ne cessera de vibrer au diapason de son ecriture et au son de sa voix. Bon sejour dans l'eternite chere June.
Marcel F. Raymond
MONTREAL
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The Casey for whom Casey House was named was one of the best friends I've ever had. Two things will always amaze me about his mother: that her grief became the cornerstone of a residence that has made a positive difference in so many people's lives, and that she was kind to me when her own pain was unbearable. My condolences to the wonderful Trent Frayne and his family.
Pamela Young, Toronto
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Thank you
Jane McKenzie
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just to add my name of condolence to a wonderful, inspiring women who canada will deeply miss. Joy Jondahl
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I never knew you June, but thanks for everything you did. You're the best!
Daryl
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I've just watch the interview on the National. Kindness. What a wonderful legacy. What a great inspiration. Thank you, June.
Charles Spencer, Ottawa
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I'm completely inspired! What an awesome life Ms .Callwood led!
Geri, preschool teacher, Port Moody, B.C.
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June Callwood was such an inspiration to so many of us. After such a full and wonderful life, may she rest in peace.
Karen Somerville, Ottawa, ON
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A true Buddhist bodhisattva. May her spirit live on in all of us.
Gord Konantz
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I have always admired this articulate, courageous woman. She was unique, and we will not see her like again in my lifetime, I am sure. My sympathy to her husband,Trent Frayne, and their family. They will be smiling through their tears, I know, when they recall memories of their loved wife, mother, and grandmother. She will be greatly missed.
Lois Vatcher
Duncan, BC (former Ontario resident)
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My condolences to June's family and friends. What an inspiring role model and mentor. I too beleive in kindness and whole heartedly agree that by doing what we can to make the world a better place is our responsibility. Ms. Calwood will be missed but never forgotten. Thanks for being here then and still.
Respectfully,
Brigitte Mercier-Corbeil
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I haven't the words to explain. Just tears. I wanted you on earth
forever.
Sharon Lawrence
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La vie devrait nous donner davantage de cette bonté incarnée.
Quel beau passage sur Terre et quelles richesses elle a laissées.
Une perte énorme.
Pierre Cantin
Chelsea, Québec
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I never met June but she has certainly made a difference in my life and every life she has come in contact with. June will be missed.
Richard Baker
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Dear June,
This won't mean anything to you now, but we loved you and will always find strength from what we know of you and the way you lived your life . . . until we die. Thank you.
The Colquhoun family (Steve, Marg, Thera and Mike).
Burlington, Ontario
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My philosophy is to do what is in front of me. This philosophy was always reinforced by June's journalism and her unending desire to make this a better world. I read everything that I could get that she wrote- i too worked with AIDS (children) and hen with refugees that were in desperate straights. I never met June but I have always felt her encouragement.
Joan Auden, Ottawa
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The greatest influence on women not only in Canada, but everywhere. Hopefully June Callwood interviews, and speeches will be put into books and film for future children to read in schools. As she wanted, babies to be brought up with love, let's put that in everyones thoughts and actions. WE all can do it. Love and sympathy to the family.
xxJan & Mac McConnell, Chateauguay QC
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Thank you June for giving so much of your life to the people of the human race. You will always be remembered.
I met you a few years ago and was inspired by your gift of giving, especially with Palliative care.
Louise Coshan
Fort Erie, Ont.
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I saw Junes last interview and was very moved knowing this was the last thing she would ever do.What a beautiful intelligent woman!!!I Send all the best to her family.I don,t think this is the end for June.I believe her spirit will live on and her family will see her again in spirit.Don,t be sad. Her body is know longer here but her kind spirit is eternal.... Sincerely Janet Richards....Halifax n.s
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I just finished watching an excerpt from June's inverview with George Stromboulopoulos on CBC and am moved to send my condolences to her family. My husband, Bill & I went to school with Jill (although she may not remember) and whenever I heard about or read about June, I somehow felt that connection.
June Callwood had a remarkable life, touched so many lives, shared so much of herself and inspired others to greatness. I know her family must be very proud of her accomplishments, but more so - proud to call her "Mom", "Grandma" and "my love". I know they will miss her greatly and wish them memories full of joy and pride. I believe that her 'kindness' will be her legacy to them all.
She claimed not to believe in God - this life was it. I think God has other ideas! She was one of his angels here on earth and I believe she had a surprise waiting for her!
With deepest respect...
Paddy (Bevis) Dodge
Regina SK
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It was with great sadness that my family and I learned of the death of a truly great Canadian and humanitarian - June Callwood.
Our sympathies to the Callwood family.
A special thank-you to June for making such a difference and inspiring so many people in her life.
Condolences from the Nunes Family
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We never met June Callwood but wish we had. A remarkable and loving person. Her love for children was an inspiration to one and all.
Deepest sympathy to her family. She will be certainly missed but not forgotten by all Canadians.
John & Gail Cook
St. John's, NL
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June Callwood - a true inspiration who, in her last CBC interview showed the wit, wisdom, insight, and strength of a real trooper.
Love and remembrance
Wallace Sullivan, Richibucto, N.B.
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May the soul of June Callwood now rest peacefully in the knowledge that her efforts and achievements have touched so many. The courage and solidarity of purpose that June exhibited all her life, is a monument to all those who sometime become discouraged in their battles for justice and human rights. She is truly a beacon by which many of us will be guided in our quest to find the light at the end of the tunnel of despair.
Goodness and love will prevail over evil, of this I am certain. Thank you June for being you and for the example you have left for us to follow. You will be sorely missed and never forgotten.
Louella Milligan
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I just wanted to write a short note to say that all Canadians can learn from studying the life of June Callwood. She will continue to be an inspiration to us all.
Brian Cant
Victoria, BC
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June Callwood:
A great lady
A wonderful person
A Canadian heroine
Rob Oates
Vancouver
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June, a simple thank you, thank you for what you have brought to our world I know you will always be remembered and your life will benefit others for eternity. Thanks for “being nice”.
Deepest Sympathy to your family but remember don’t be sad she is gone, be happy you have had her in your life; she will be with you always.
Grant Southwell
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I must say I feel that June's message of kindness is the best and most universal message any one person can give to our world. Kindness is to be gentle and caring, yet can drive us to want to change the world. Thank you June Callwood for reinforcing my belief that kindness is the one thing that we all have in common and though your life and death many people in our world will begin to see that. LEAH WALTER
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What a magnificently priceless Canadian and human---magnificent in her directness, her energy, her good will, her compassion, indeed in her simplicity. She knew what is truly important in life.
Gordon Hardacre, Toronto
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To June Callwood’s family,
I just watched your wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother (perhaps) interviewed on CBC. I know how much I treasured the condolences I received at this great time of grief. I loved June’s description of 7 ‘marriages’ in one – so true and it helped me to understand this marathon of love that is so completely based on similar values and equality of spirit. How lucky we are when we find the true mate. Mine was 22 years older and 29 years long and I had to accept the fact early on that I would likely hold my loved one in my arms as he died. I did (with our children), and I would never trade true love because even if the body dies, the sole lives on in our hearts and brains. My rector said recently that peace and love is the marriage of heart and brain. God bless you all as you live through this loss. I had heard of June of course but this CBC documentary helped to connect with her and with you her family.
My love and my commitment to making a better world, my tribute to your beloved June,
Lucile Edwards
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A truly Magnificent Lady.... In her honor,let us All find something Good to do....spread the KINDNESS. We are better for having witnessed the life and passions of such a Wonderful soul.Farewell June,May you sleep the sleep of Angels. Until we meet again.
Paulette Field ,Fort Saskatchewan,Alberta
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My condolences to the families of June Callwood. I did not know June Callwood personally but I heard her speak as a keynote speaker at an Early Childhood Education Conference in Red Deer, Alberta in the 1990's. I knew when I heard her words about defending and acknowledging that Canandian dollars needed to be spent here right at home in Canada to help our own children, that I was in the presence of an awe striking and spirited woman. One who could and had and would do all she could for children. Bravo June! We are still giving you a standing ovation.......
Holly Doram Red Deer, Alberta Canada
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Thank you for shining your light to show us the way.
Chris Van Krieken,
Thornhill, Ontario
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Met June Callwood for a brief moment years ago and she left a lasting impression on me .Yvette Clarke Oakville.Ontario
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How very lucky we are to have lived in the time of June Callwood. Her fierce determination, her compassion and her desire to make the world a kinder, gentler place will be remembered forever. Her legacy will live on in the people who were fortunate to have been touched by her dedication and untiring life’s work.
I’m reminded of a beautiful verse I read - Author Unknown, “Courage does not always roar, sometimes it’s the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow”. June inspired us to continue to try.
Lynda Elliott
Guelph, Ontario
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The world has lost a phenomenal leader. Thank you, June, for opening our
eyes and our hearts.
Liz
Toronto, Ont.
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This Lady will forever be a symbol for Canadians of all walks of life to look up to and try but will never compete. Her dedication and sinerity are one of a kind seldom ever found in this country. June Callwood We thank-you ofr you dedication and we will miss you.
Rick Abbs
Tillsonburg Ontario
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I knew Ms Callwood only through the media over the years, except one day many years back when I saw her on Bathurst and Queen Sts carrying a tripod and a camera. I recognized her immediately and said to her 'good afternoon, Ms Callwood' to which she said 'do you live in the neighbourhood?' We talked for about two minutes and she went her way saying 'it was nice talking to you'. 'Likewise' I said. That was love at first sight.
I always had a great admiration for her work especially her good for those less privileged. A great Canadian, a great person, a great soul. May she rest in peace forever.
Joaquim Teotonio
Mississauga
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What an inspiring, amazing individual?
Even though I never met her, I was so inspired with her words of kindness and her amazing work. .
What a dream she had, to be kind to each other!! She led by example.
You are an angel to all of us.
Thank you to her family for sharing this very amazing lady with the rest of the world.
Frances Bergen, BC
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I often heard about June Callwood and her accomplishments over the years, her successes and some of the trials she went through during her incredible life through the newspapers I would read in Northern Ontario. Because of her immense contributions to her causes, one was bound to hear about her and her achievements. But it was not until tonight's CBC News program where her last interview with George Stoumboulopoulos was shown, that I was able to grasp what an unbelievable human being she was and still is. Her words of wisdom, her gifts were so evident in this short clip. For those who only knew her surperficially through media and quotes, this story might be worth viewing. She is kindness personified.
http://www.cbc.ca/thehour/video.php?id=1551
Jim Fogarty
Pembroke, ON
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As I sat and watched George's interview with June Callwood tonight I was very moved. In the length of that interview she moved my heart between laughter, tears and great pride of what a woman can do when she is moved. Canada and the world has lost a great soul.
I have watched and read June Callwood since the late sixties. I have not always agreed with her on every issue; however, I have always admired her convicition and her spirit.
Wow, what a beautiful soul! Earlier today, on television, I had watched "Green Space", they were doing the grounds of Casey House. It was moving to watch June at work and see the lives she touched. The journey she had in this life, was chosen well and she was able to touch millions around the world; and even after death she will continue to touch others. God Bless her and those who continue on this journey
The following poem I wrote when my Father passed away.
In deepest sympathy, I share it with all.
Marilyn Kay Allanson
Kenora, Ontario
THE JOURNEY
Deep within the warmth of womb,
A flicker, a movement and life begins.
A miracle takes place in the darkness,
Sheltered in safety.
Agonizing pain, hours or days;
It makes no difference
For life emerges clean and new.
A breath is taken and a journey begins.
Growth of mind and body,
Spirit, heart and soul
Growing and evolving daily ever changing.
Mountains, valleys and deep pits are entered,
Searched and lived over
In the days, months, years
allotted to each human body and soul.
No two are alike.
Each journey is unique,
Precious, sacred, and one of a kind;
Results known only to God.
When will the journey end or where
No one knows.
A breath is taken and then nothing
Life here has ended
But the journey goes on.
© Marilyn Kay Allanson
May 1999
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I am sending my most soul-felt thoughts to you, and all your family.
I know words are like Band-aids on painful memories; it’s the best I can do.
I wear a few; they remind me of one of the greatest gifts GOD has given me, my mother!
Keep moving forward together as a family, is the best advice I can give you!
I also want to share with you my brief meeting with June.
At the time I frequented the Brampton 4 Corners Library to read books in the computer section.
It was very long ago, it must have been about 8, or more years back.
I was at the checkout signing out some books.
I sensed the librarian behind the checkout counter was familiar looking, although
I had never met her.
She didn’t give me any indication she was a local Samaritan of any sort?
We conversed about family, society, and the common values we shared on those topics.
She said just enough, but did not try to own the conversation.
I left feeling I had met a very special individual.
If I am not talking about June, I am sorry, although I would guess that June would
have left me feeling I had met someone special !
Sincerely
Don Souillet
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My deepest condolescences to June Callwood's family and close friends.
If only I can ease your heart
All that feeling of pain
May your heart be filled with sweet memories
Of this great woman, this is June Callwood
Remember all of Canada weeps with you
My condolescences for every day you grieve.
Antonietta Salvatore
Montreal, Quebec
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An inspiration to us all.
Matthew Hutt, Belleville, ON
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Thank you June.... you are a true Canadian, an inspiration and role model for all of us, for time in memorial....
Harry Adam
Coldstream BC
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Two. Two died this springtime. Two people who told us that KINDNESS is to be the forefront of human endeavors. I offer condolences in memory of June Caldwood and of Kurt Vonnegut.
Mike Curtis
Surrey, BC
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You've inspired me to hope. Thank you.
-Andrew Lane
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June Callwood was a very great and wise human being and it is right to recognize her great legacy to Canadians. She was also a very good writer and fighter for many social causes, including helping those living with HIV and dying from AIDS. She was a very brave woman.
I never met her but certainly read her and knew of her. Like me, she was a journalist and wrote for Macleans, which I also did. I certainly knew of her work in getting Casey House established and she blazed a trail in that field at a difficult time when few people understood or cared to understand how great a waste and tragedy HIV was. In many ways she helped get people talking about it and taking a more enlightened, compassionate view. Above all, her efforts were immensly practical.
She will be missed and the world is poorer for her passing but the love she sprinkled around the world lives on. May she rest in peace.
Peter Carlyle-Gordge,
former president, Village Clinic Inc., Winnipeg.
Former Manitoba correspondent, Macleans Magazine.
Formerly Hon. press secretary to the Lt.Governor of Manitoba.
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Louise Binder would like to thank and remember June for all of the incredible work she did to support the AIDS community over the years.
Many thanks,
Leah
Executive Assistant
Canadian Treatment Action Council
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In June Callwood, Canada had a fiercely proud citizen and one of its greatest, most vocal champions. I'm not sure we have begun to really understand the enormity of the meaning of her loss to the country. More importantly, the loss to her greatly loved partner, children and grandchildren, and closest friends fills me with sadness. But aren't they lucky to have had such a mom, wife, grandmother and friend? And for those of us touched even briefly by June, we were forever changed by those moments and interactions.
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said that "our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." June moved that kind of talk to action and seems to have lived it in all she did. I know she lived with terrible emotional pain, but didn't she do that with amazing grace? I am blessed to have crossed her path a time or two in person, to have smiled listening to her energetic voice on the phone, laughed and cried listening to her speaking in large formal events, and to have lived in this country at the same time she did. She made me want to be better - what a legacy. I will her so presence in Canada so much.
Mike Villeneuve, Busara Consultants, Ottawa
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This morning I shared with my mother news of June’s passing, and was delighted when she replied:
“I happen to have very special feelings about Ms. Callwood. Did I ever tell you that I had the honor of having her over to our house for tea and an interview? It was so splendid. I had submitted an article to the Chatelaine magazine and although it wasn't accepted, June was writing an article on the same subject and wanted to interview me because of my submission on that subject. I was paid $50 by Chatelaine for the interview. However, I don't believe she used any of my comments in her article as I recall. I happened to have a very special white tea set and brought it into the living room on a tray with the pot and cups and cream and sugar bowls all in one set. It felt so appropriate for the occasion.”
I am so happy to have heard that story. June was in my house!
Theresa Lennon
Max and Beatrice Wolfe Centre for Children's Grief and Palliative Care
The Temmy Latner Centre for Palliative Care
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I had the very good fortune to meet and interview June Callwood on Monday, March 25, 1991 as part of a fundraising feasibility study for the Casey House Foundation. It was a very memorable and insightful 90 minutes followed by an adventurous ride to the subway in June's sports car.
June was an unforgettable lady filled with unlimited compassion and love for others. Her contribution to Toronto and Canada is remarkable.
Norm Guilfoyle
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I would like to have my message of Condolence sent in and added to the many wonderful tributes being sent in for June Callwood.
Had it not be for June, I would quite possibly not be here at this time. I was slated to die in 1999 and due to the existence of this magnificent institution "Casey House", I am alive today to enjoy a somewhat happy and physically a bearable life like so many of us have been able to.
I want to thank June's Husband and family for allowing this wonderful woman and voice the opportunity to allow those of us who really appreciate all the hard work and selfish hours spent trying to help those of us who actually need it a lot.
Without your help from the family, this would not have been possible. My only regret is that she could not hang on for one more DQ! I met her in 2003 while an usherette for that year's show and wouldn't have been able to even attend, had it not been for Casey House and June Callwood among many others employed and giving of their hearts and love and support.
So on behalf of my partner, friends, family and my mom and myself, Thanks June!
I can only hope that all you have done for us here will not be in vain and that your legacy will live on in the hearts of those whom you have deeply touched.
Thank You!
This year, you are the star of DQ!!!
Colin Lalonde
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Hi,
I'm writing just to say how sad I am at the death of June Callwood. She was a woman whom I admired tremendously. I've read her books and a lot of what she wrote. Her book on cancer and death has affected me and my life so much. I saw her interviewed many times and also saw her interview Rita McNeil, which was a beautiful experience. I have such a high regard for this lady, I just had to communicate this with you. My sincere condolances go to all there who are involved in so much of what she did and felt each day.
I hope you don't mind my thoughts coming to you via email!
Sincerely,
Jennifer Whitfield,
St. John's,
Newfoundland
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June's contibution will forever be remembered in the lives that she touched and affected by her good deeds.
With loving thoughts of a great canadian--
Richard Kerr Toronto, Ontario
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From Audrey Whitney, co-ordinator Hospice Prince Edward:
We are grateful for June Callwood’s vision, strength and integrity. Hospice Prince Edward provides end-of-life care in the tradition of equality and compassion set by June. We extend our sympathy to her cherished family.
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I am very saddened to learn of the loss of this great woman and Saint. June Callwood was a role model of kindness, compassion and selflessness. I regret I never met her personally. She is a mentor, who left the world a much much better place because of the gift of her presence, in it. We are all so blessed because of this. I had occasion to visit Casey house, and I was deeply touched by the compassion of the staff. I could feel the Spirit of June Callwood there. She will be greatly missed. May she rest in peace now, in the arms of God, and finally be freed from her suffering.
Ms. Gabrielle Frenkel, Hospice Volunteer
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for june callwood
if i had to describe my heart
i would say that mine was
blood red and bleeding
like the flowers i bought for june
june’s heart was that colour too
deep maroon and heavy as garnet
solid as the rock we picked up in bancroft
in the river that flowed near the lake
the water looked calm hardly moving
but when we put our bare feet in
the cold made us gasp stop breathing for a moment
and the current wanted to wash us away
june took me places with her words
she washed my dreams over me
understanding them
understating them so that they could become real
i placed my flowers at the entrance of the path
taking people to the wooden door
that wouldn’t close on its own
but swung shut slowly creaking
crying into the house and out
where the candle burnt red in the window
shining over my daisies
draped on the rocks near the metal fence
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my old wrought iron typewriter
reminds me of her
and i told her in my last letter
that i would be getting one
and when i typed on it
she would be in the room with me
and each word would be loud and strong and true
like hers
she was wrong when she said
that life was dust to dust
and when you died it ended
she didn’t realize that her life has no end
the zulus don’t have a word for goodbye
they say hamba gahle which means go well
and i know that that she will
but she isn’t gone
i read in the newspaper that she stopped breathing
at four in the morning
at three thirty four my clock radio woke me up
hissed and spat at me
tried to tell me something for the next thirty minutes
even though the switch was not turned on
when i sit down at my typewriter
and my fingers press down on the keys
the typewriter is not just typing
it is breathing and speaking
it has a voice of its own
and she is there in the room
standing with her hands on her hips
looking around at her letters framed on my wall
and the pile of newspaper articles i have collected
she shakes her head at the obituary i wrote for her
and when tears fall down my cheeks
scalding them
she wipes them away
with her invisible fingers
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i don’t remember the chair i sat on at casey house
but the table was made out of wood
and the condolence book pages
were rough
it all started with a tree
when i told her years ago the meaning of syringa
and described to her the poison that the tree held
she watched me rapt with attention
i had a tree in my garden that i used to climb
i watched the world from the branches
spent my childhood
under an aquamarine sky
i believe her favourite flowers were tulips
the colour of honey and the sun halfway through the day
tulips graced the table
and yellow petals clenched at the entrance near the door
when we walked across the city
with candles and our memories
to honour her life
there were yellow tulips everywhere
as i sit down to write on those brittle pages
at the polished desk that holds her smiling photograph
the red candle winks at me through my tears
and i know that the pages i touch were once trees
alive in a forest under a sky
and june saw that sky
blinked at the same sun that rode on its journey
from east to west closing the day in a display of colour
and i imagine her sitting at a typewriter
at her open window watching the sun set
straightening a few tulips
that bow towards her from their vase
written by lisa nackan April 19 2007
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I didn’t know June Callwood well…on a personal level. Yet, though her work, her words and her deeds, June came to feel like an old friend. (Certainly someone you would want to count a friend). Working with Hospice Toronto (formerly Trinity Home Hospice) the woman who was known to me over the years only through glimpses confined to her television and print personas became more real to me through the collective voices of my colleagues who knew her well. June, who wrote "Twelve Weeks in Spring" after helping to form the "Margaret team" a circle of friends and community providing support to Margaret Frazer in her final weeks of life. Our hospice was born from the commitment of those who formed that caring circle and continues to support the wishes of those facing a terminal illness and who choose to be cared for in their home. Only one of her countless legacies…. June, wearing a heavy crown atop her now fragile frame as an angel in the Casey House DQ fundraising show…and beaming. June, driving up to Collingwood to present the June Callwood awards at the annual Hospice Association of Ontario conference just over a year ago (an award the recipient from Hospice Toronto proudly framed to hang in his office at work) Her speech that year was filled with glimpses of the person she was, strongly believing in the responsibility each of us in a society have for one another, and a passionate appeal to look to the future for the emerging needs….hers was the children. And finally June, in her final days, smiling still and as always outwardly focused… reaching out to others to rally to the cause(s)… She was a woman I held in deep regard. Her death felt much like the death of a good friend although, as I said,,,,I didn’t know June Callwood well.
Regards, Dena Maule
Executive Director, Hospice Toronto
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I send my deepest sympathy for the loss of June. She was a mentor and inspiration to all women in Canada. Every time that I heard her speak, she motivated me to do something to change Canada for the better.
I wish, I could have personally worked on a project with her. It would have allowed me to witness miracles in the making.
Marg Graham, Port Hope
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Dear June, I know you did not believe in an afterlife - but with all that you said, all that you did and all that you stood for, there will always be life after death for you.
Thank you for all of the stories, the laughs we shared and for just being you
With love and admiration
Helen Stalker, Casey House Reception
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I was in attendance at a recent Arlo Guthrie Concert in Edmonton. During one of his shared stories, Arlo talked about Joseph, his coat of many colors and the nasty brothers that meant to do him harm.
He described what it must have been like for Joseph's brothers as they plotted against their brother and how they went to search for him. He went on to describe the brothers finding an anonymous man in a field and asking him "which way did he go?" The reply came "That way".
Arlo's point was that it was this anonymous man who changed the course of history by saying "he went that way". If it were not for that unknown man, Egypt's pharao might never have been saved.
June, even though she was a well known Canadian, was the person who was never afraid to act as a guide post. She stood firm in her convictions. When she reaches the gates of heaven and she is asked "what have you done with the gifts I have given you?" She will surely be able to say "Lord, I used every last one when I answered your calls."
Years ago, my mother was asked to resign as a school teacher in a rural community because she encouraged the use of the Cree language in the class room. After she got through the shock of the matter, she began a bit of correspondence with June. June wrote back of course and they continued letter writing for almost a year. I think June sensed that my mother was in isolation and needed support. I don't know if she was ever aware of the fact that it was her letters that brought my mother through.
She cared. That was her big secret - she actually cared about people as individuals. St. June, may you rest with the angels.
Mary Lawlor-Olson,
Edson, Alberta
quote: Very minor sins have led to great catastrophes, and for very minor good deeds, some met with enormous rewards.- Seder Eliyahu Rabbah
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My heartfelt condolences to June's family and friends. And to the rest of us, whether we directly knew her or not, I have a request: to make the time to keep her spirit and her good works alive.
June was never vague about how to get on with what needed to be done and so we all have as fine an example as there ever was about how to fix what's missing or broken in society as well as how to be a success as a person.
As one of the many people once broken by life's circumstances who recieved her kind attention, I am a living testament to the healing that resulted from having been respected, honoured and nurtured by June. While I have a small cache of letters from her that I know will continue to bring me comfort, I will so miss her laughter-- delightful and soothing and infectious.
I mourn the loss of a superb human being-- a kind and generous mother-mentor who, just by being authentically who she was, taught me all I needed to know about doing my best and using my life well.
June will remain in perpetuity one of the premier and significant Canadians of the 20th century. I just think the best we can do now is to keep her no-nonsense yet compassion-filled message alive, make sure her voice is heard and emulate her strategies for community and living.
Jill Kennedy McCabe, Vancouver, B.C.
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May god grant her soul eternal rest. Did not know her personally.She was like a beautiful rose standing by our side Now God is in need of her on the other side
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I never met June Callwood in person yet she has touched my life.In fact she has touched so many lives.
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I never met June Callwood; however I have always respected and followed her vision, compassion and integrity.
Thank you for your amazing strength and grace.
Louise, Toronto, Ontario
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Somehow, to know right away and be thinking of her is important.
I've always admired and been inspired by June Callwood. She was a strong woman with a big heart, an intellectual who cared about people, a leader who set a good example, and a real achiever who openly discussed her failings and difficulties. These are rare combinations of qualities to find in a controversial public person.
I love the idea that one person with a good heart and voice can effect subtle changes in others' thinking and feeling. When you consider the ripple effect of one person (any person) who can create awareness, draw people's interest, inform people, encourage discussion and debate, and maybe even inspire a few to take action -- it is very, very powerful.
June Callwood did all that and more -- in a huge way. She was a one-woman grassroots movement that rivaled a redwood forest. She was a towering little woman. June Callwood was a force of nature for our own good. She changed our world, didn't she?
She changed us, didn't she?
Valerie D.French
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It saddens me to hear of this great woman's passing. She showed a us a beautiful spirit and limitless compassion for the Human species. She showed us how to care for ourselves. I am grateful. Ginette
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Although I have never met June Callwood personally, I have read about her crusades for others for years. She have been an inspiration to me for as long as I can remember. She used her talents, her vision and her compassion with intelligence and passion. To live life with 'kindness' is perhaps the most important lesson she taught me.
My deepest sympathies to June's family and friends who are grieving her loss.
Millicent Bristow
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I too met Ms. Callwood at Ryerson’s journalism school where she gave the very best lecture of all the guest lecturers. Why the best? Even if you were in the 20th row, she seemed to address you directly with her language, warmth and gestures. If you queried her in the Q & A afterwards, she understood exactly what was asked, even if the student did not articulate well.
Her incredible humanity in all her public endeavours showed that there is no need for arrogance of any stripe in this world, that all people are beautiful and deserving of love.
Ms. Callwood’s Casey House has had a profound impact on me directly. My family and I first lost my brother’s husband (partner of 10 years) there (1995). We all just lost my brother there (March 17, 2007), after just 3 months of casual residence (and 2 weeks of full-time residence).
The thing about Casey House is, because of the structural beauty and generous donations over the years, because of the loving compassionate and professional care of all employees and co-residents, you immediately feel that you are with your loved one in your own home. For those who die there, I’m certain it is the very next best thing to being at home. Living & Dying with Dignity, thank you so much Ms. Callwood.
Thank you to her family & dearest friends for sharing her with us.
My deepest condolences to her family for your incredible loss.
My prayers are with you and any residents and employees at Casey House who got to know her.
To all who passed through Casey House, we were her daughters and sons too.
Gillian Plaatjes, Port Credit, ON
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The 19th century American writer Elbert Hubbard said " Men are only great as they are kind." June would update that and say "people are only great as they are kind", of course. June's kindness was not the condescending kind of kindness, but the genuine kindness that springs from a love of humanity, a compassion for the marginalized, and a respect for the dignity of all persons. By Hubbard's measure, June was the greatest of us all.
I last saw June not so long ago at MCC Toronto, where I reminded her of this story of the first time we met. She quickly recalled it.
I was on the first elected Board of the AIDS Committee of Toronto (ACT), back in the early eighties. We were "the only game in town" at that time. People living with AIDS had few friends outside of the LGBT communities in those days. It was not surprising that June was one of them. Far from avoiding the outcasts of society, like the Good Samaritan, she always embraced them. June was the hope of the hopeless.
What was surprising was June's decision about how she might help us. In those days, far too often, people living with AIDS had been rejected by their families and ill-served by mainstream hospitals. June had a vision of a haven for people with AIDS, where they would be offered comfort, dignity and kindness in their dying days: Casey House.
Frankly, not a few of us thought she was being too ambitious. We were struggling just to keep ACT's doors open. June's project was complex, costly and virtually unprecedented. But June Callwood, despite her formidable command of the English language, did not know the meaning of one simple word: impossible.
I soon had a call that June was on her way to my office. She arrived in her typical rumpled and frenetic state. "Quick Doug, I am parked illegally! Sign!" I had only seconds to glance at the contract, and I was terrified at the size of the financial commitment our fragile organization was being asked to make. But what could I do? No one could say no to June. And deep down inside, knowing it was June, I believed that she would make it happen. I signed. June was right about the property. It has been the home of Casey House ever since.
There was always something reassuring about June, just knowing that she was always there to fight for what was right.
Thanks to Trent and the family for sharing your beloved June with us. In some small way, we share your sorrow, knowing that her radiant smile has left us. But we also share your joy and pride in having been touched by her love.
Douglas Elliott
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Remembering June: a life well lived
My heart ached with sadness when I heard about the death of June Callwood. I have encountered June three times in my life perhaps more. As Sally Armstrong stated in her interview on CBC, we all feel we knew her.
My most recent encounter with her was last May at a student march at Queen's Park. It was "Men Walking Against Violence Against Women." Students from various high schools listened to young people and veteran activists speak about the the fact that the atrocities against women and girls in Afghanistan and in fact everywhere in the world have to stop. I am a retired teacher and volunteer with the Canadians in Support of Afghan Women.
Prior to that I encountered June at a celebration for the lives of those who have been in Casey House and who have died since it's inception. The celebration was at Trinity College Chapel at U of T and I attended because my friend and teacher colleague Paul Trevorrow was one of the first residents of Casey House and I was there to pay tribute and to celebrate his life. At the end of the service we all joined hands hands around a candle and sang "Song of the Soul". June was there celebrating with us all.
I followed Jill through her book ...her journey west nd her journey in search of her self.
Many years before that I lived in Etobicoke. I attended Burnhamthorpe Collegiate. In my grade 9 class was a student named "Barney" Frayne. He and I played the viola side by side in our music class. He and I were privileged to be in the class of teacher Elwy Yost....our home room teacher. In a way I was touched by June through Barney/Brant.
June is a hero for all us.....how she lived her life...she indeed made her mark in her kindnesses to all. A life well lived. She was indeed if I may quote her obituary...our shining star. I would like to dedicate the song "Song of the Soul" to her and will ask our choir WomEnchant to sing it in her memory when we meet again.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Liz Watson
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Oh, how fortunate we have been. June’s principals, insight, commitment to equality and justice and her indignation at the suffering of her fellows caused those of us whose sympathies coincide with hers, to love and respect her. Just as a stone, thrown on complacent waters, causes change into the future, June’s life work will continue to move us toward a more compassionate society. Thank you June, and thank you to all who supported her.
Eleanor Bro, Barrie, Ontario.
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The papers have been filled with wonderful stories about June. Everything I read only confirms what I felt when I knew her only briefly over 25 years ago. I met June when Jessie’s first opened up on Bathurst St. just south of King. I worked at St. Christopher House and we were piloting a teen mother’s program. We partnered with Jessie’s to deliver a group together. This was also around the same time she lost her beloved son Casey and I remember how she held herself together with such strength and dignity and yet was not afraid to show her deep, deep grief. My own son had just been born and I could not even begin to imagine what she was going through.
My father, Doug Amaron, who passed away in 1985, knew both June and Trent Frayne from his days as a journalist and as General Superintendent of Canadian Press. When I told him I’d met June Callwood he told me about his association with them and how much he admired both June and Trent. I know he would join my family and me in sending condolences to June’s family, associates and many, many friends.
June will always be remembered. She has left her indelible mark upon this city and upon us all.
With much sympathy,
Estelle Amaron
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June never lost an opportunity to encourage and inspire many of us. The smallest gesture always received a glowing letter from her making us feel like we were the most important people in the world and she would always encourage and inspire us to do more. She never lost an opportunity to ask ‘how can I help?’ or ‘what do you need me to do?’ And she never stopped doing. She is greatly loved and admired and will always be an inspiration to all of us.
Salah Bachir, President, Cineplex Media
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Some Memories of June Callwood from a volunteer at Casey House
I was a volunteer reader at Casey House during my years in Toronto in the early nineties and had the pleasure of meeting June Callwood on a number of occasions. The first encounter was at my volunteer orientation when she told us the story of how she gathered a group of people together and suggested that they open an Aids Hospice called Casey House. I remember her explaining to us that one of the first fundraising functions that Casey House was going to get involved in was a "DQ Party" - she wondered if she knew anyone at Dairy Queen that could be of help!
Her early commitment to causes that few people recognized or wanted to recognize set her apart and her ability to rally supporters to these causes and to make these things happen is now legendary. It was my pleasure to be one of her volunteers.
"Canada's Conscience" will be sorely missed but all the wonderful memories and stories that we have will ensure that the legacy of June Rose Callwood will always be with us.
Alix Nicoll, Whistler, B.C.
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What a remarkable human being ! Let's remember her kindness and her dedication to the weak, the sick, the defenceless and try to emulate her: a thousand of us wouldn't match her achievements.
Enrique Lopez-R, Montreal, Quebec
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I met June shortly after I moved to Toronto from Montreal. I had responded to a notice posted at the North York Public Library advertising that she would be the Writer-in-Residence there. Aspiring writers were encouraged to send in manuscripts, and I was thrilled when my submission qualified me to spend 6 weeks with her as my writing mentor.
I knew of her many articles and books, her initiatives, the influence she used so magnificently to garner the support she needed for all her causes. I watched in awe as this woman, who did not suffer fools gladly, worked her magic on everyone around her. I could not believe my good fortune.
Time spent with June was something I've treasured for more than a decade. She had the uncanny ability to be deftly critical while always encouraging. One never felt slighted -- only buoyed by her example of intelligence, wit and commitment to what was good and right in all of us. She moved me with her candor about the tragedies of her life.
"I have always believed that boys are more vulnerable than girls," she said, when I confided in her. I have never forgotten her words -- and now fully appreciate the message behind them.
At the end of the 6-week writing workshop, I gave June a gift -- an ink rubbing that I had collected when I lived in China. I couldn't find the words to explain to her what my time with her had meant to me. Ever humble and never fully aware of her effect on people, she wasn't able to fathom why I felt her time with me was worthy of this piece of art. She later wrote me a thank you note telling me how much she cherished my gift to her, and that she had placed it above her living room sofa. Later, when I saw a photo of her with the rubbing framed behind her, I was moved to think that she had given my token of appreciation such a prominent place in her home.
That was June -- so grateful to people who treated her kindly -- never fully understanding that it was her kindness that was so contagious.
I remain inspired and moved to action by June's uncommon grace, humility and love for humanity. She touched my life -- and those of so many others -- in her inimitable way.
I will miss you, June.
I offer my deepest condolences to her beloved 'guy' Trent, and her treasured children and grand-children.
Shirley Zussman, Toronto, Ontario
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I first had the honour of meeting June in 1996. She asked me to meet her at Casey House after I contacted her about Woman, a newsmagazine for Canadian women which I started that year. I was seeking June’s advice and, although she’d never heard of me, she hesitated not one iota to extend her support in so many ways: advising the magazine editorial board, granting permission to publish her article on child poverty in Canada (at no cost), meeting for supportive tea ‘chats’ in local Cabbagetown shops over the ensuing years. She also supported me when I was nominated for an entrepreneurship award in 1999. The letter she wrote meant the world to me: I framed it and hung it on my wall, next to my desk, where I sit each day now and try to write. Her words of support inspire me to this day.
For a while after I closed the magazine in 2002, we kept in touch; I sought her out when my 17-year-old son became diagnosed with a chronic mental illness in 2003, and she was there for me … even then.
I know that I’m just one of so many hundreds of others who felt the positive force that was June, but I believe most would agree that she is irreplaceable and that she will be soulfully missed.
Today, my world feels a little more empty and a little less safe, knowing that June Callwood is gone.
Elizabeth Scott, Toronto, ON
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While I didn't have the pleasure of knowing June personally, I do feel real sadness at her passing. What I most admired about her is that with all her passion and wide vision about so many injustices, she still just GOT ON WITH IT...and got things DONE. It can seem so easy to get paralyzed, morose or just apathetic, yet she had no time for that. She accomplished so much in one life, and her actions will ripple forward even more. We're poorer for the loss of her person, yet richer for the gifts her energy brought to fruition.
Farewell to an angel and a hero.
Julia Doucette, Toronto
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Dear Casey House Friends of June Callwood,
The Board of Directors and staff at USC Canada would like to add their words of sympathy and appreciation for June to what must be a very long list of friends sending their condolences your way. As Bob Lang noted below, June was an important public persona for USC Canada for many years, having generously volunteered her time to speak on our behalf in radio and television spots. She not only extended a helping hand to those is need at home but reached out to people in other countries who also found themselves marginalized and in need of thoughtful support.
Our founder, Lotta Hitchmanova and June were really two of a kind -- dynamic, determined women who worked tirelessly to promote social justice in our all too fractured world.
Warm Wishes for the continued success of your important programs.
Susan Walsh, Executive Director, USC Canada
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I was sadden to hear that June Callwood has left this earth. It was expected but still hard to comprehend. I am from Whitehorse, Yukon. Toronto to us, is another world away! Please have three candles lit for all the women of the three northern territories in her memory. Thank you.
Judi Johnny
Whitehorse, Yukon
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Wow, what a woman!
Thank you, June, for Casey House. You turned your own tragedy into a work that truly honoured the memory of your lost child. You were there when we needed you; you were fearless in championing PHAs and gay people before it was 'safe' to do so, and your work helped diminish the pariah status of those living with AIDS. I was fortunate to get the help of Casey House counselling staff after my partner Michel succumbed in 2001 at the age of 27. They - the staff of Casey House - truly care, and that is your true legacy: inspiring a generation of caring people who know there is more to life than an ideology of consumerism and sel









